Rantings


Here’s the progress… Amazing right - six days and only one small portion completed. Shucks.

Overall look of the pattern

Overall look of the pattern

Closer look. Yes, the bottom portion is still not completed. :(

Closer look. Yes, the bottom portion is still not completed. :(

And now, I want to rant.

Remember this article from HDB?

Wow, good article, my head.

Wow, good article, my head. (Source: The Straits Times)

According to the article, 8 out of 10 people would get their flats on their 1st try and 96% on their second.

Rubbish!

Unfortunately, the bf and I are always in the far end of the percentile. After TWO BTOs and ONE sale of remaining flat applications, we are still waiting. And mind you, our number usually far exceeds the number of flats on offer and is usually at the tail end. Where got ‘choosy-ness’ to talk aboout???

RUBBISH!

My colleague tried balloting for BTO projects for at least 4 times. And he didn’t get anything either.  My bf’s friend tried for 10 times and his number always exceeds the number of flats available. These are real people, real cases.

So, please tell me HDB, what in heavens name is happening and how do you determine your statistics?

And then there is this other article recently where some guy up there was saying that couples usually only ballot for flats slightly before they get married, like 1 to 1.5years before. And it takes a long time for the flats to be built, so people should plan earlier and ballot earlier - and do not complain that flats don’t come fast enough.

HELLO?!

Does it even make sense? What if you only met your partner recently and decided to get married? You want people to wait five years??!!! or 10??!! Not everyone marry their high school sweet heart. Get a grip man!

Okay. enough.

Now, I just need to make $$ fall from the sky to get private property.

My good friend made a comment about Facebook today

“I can hardly bear to look at FB but yet, I can’t help but surf FB.”

I totally understand what she means.

You see updates about holidays to far away places, dinners at fancy restaurants, romantic videos about couples getting married and the coolest things people are doing at work.

Makes you feel inadequate and envious after going through pages and pages of such updates.

But yet, you feel like you need know about what is happening in your ‘friends’ life.

Oh, so he went to that country. He’s dating her and she got married already? Or, that wasn’t how I remember her to be etc etc etc….

Facebook, and even any other social network websites, has become more than just a website for staying in contact with your friends - it has become a platform for people to flaunt their lifestyles and tell the world how lucky or unfortunate they are, whether or not it is true or otherwise.

It has also become a platform to form judgments or impressions about people – which may not be necessary reflective as well.

This person must be rich to be traveling every other month (败家子), that person is always seen taking photo with a different guy (wanton) and check out those racy videos this person is posting again (pervert)…

Our personality is twisted – because of our online persona and how people judge us according to our profile.

Our self-worth is warped – because of what we presume other have while we don’t.

All because we have more access to each other’s life via a website.

Yes, indeed. Cannot seem to find the time to update at all!!!

1. 8 months

It has been 8 months since I gave my heart away. Thank you for everything. :)

It has also been 8 months that I have been a little less of the daughter and sister I used to be. Less time at home, more time hanging around with friends and the bf. Can’t help it, but need to try harder!

2. 9 months

Quite fast ya? I am 4 months away from one year into my current job. Time really flies. So far so good, but I have higher expectations of myself and hopefully, I will be able to reach my personal goal at the end of the first year.

3. 10 months

It has been like 10months or so since I have graduated. Where would I be in another 10 months time? I feel like I have the need to be at a better position than where I am now, yet, I am clueless as to where I should be. I need some guidance, NOW!

Sometimes, I am not too sure whether I should share my woes because I am worried about bothering people.See the irony in that statement?I guess, I am just a talented ‘worrier’.Internal struggles and external pressures.When will I find my way?When will I find myself – my true self? 

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